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The purpose of full attention…

Posted in Photography with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on August 10, 2012 by Mj Rains

girl“This is the ongoing purpose of full attention: to find a thousand ways to be pierced into wholeness.” ~Mark Nepo

image: girl by xomsaa

The Secrets of the Age of Thirteen

Posted in When it RAINs with tags , , , , , , on May 2, 2009 by Mj Rains


Portrait of Girl with Comic Book  by Phyllis McGinley

Thirteen’s no age at all.  Thirteen is nothing.

It is not wit, or powder on the face.

Or Wednesday matinees, or misses’ clothing,

Or intellect, or grace.

Twelve has its tribal customs.  But thirteen

Is neither boys in battered cars nor dolls,

Not Sara Crewe, or movie magazine,

Or pennants on the walls.


Thirteen keeps diaries and tropical fish

(A month, at most); scorns jumpropes in the spring;

Could not, would fortune grant it, name its wish;

Wants nothing, everything;

Has secrets from itself, friends it despises;

Admits none to the terrors that it feels;

Owns half a hundred masks but no disguises;

And walks upon its heels.


Thirteen’s anomalous–not that, not this:

Not folded bud, or wave that laps a shore,

Or moth proverbial from the chrysalis.

Is the one age defeats the metaphor.

Is not a town, like childhood, strongly walled

But easily surrounded; is no city.

Nor, quitted once, can it be quite recalled–

Not even with pity. 


From: The Love Letters of Phyllis McGinley (1954)  mcginley_phyllis

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